Fear as a reason to lie;

"The worst lies are the lies we tell ourselves.  We live in denial of what we do, even what we think.  We do this because we're afraid.  We fear we will not find love, and when we do find it we fear we'll loose it.  We fear that if we do not have love, we'll be unhappy."  Richard Bach

Love is everywhere, but throughout our lives, we find Love within
 another person. You find yourself within the other's person eye, within his or her life.

And whenever you find that, consider yourself very fortunate and love back;  Give and Receive.

Life is not a fairy-tale;  Destiny doesn't exist;  It's up to us to make decisions and create our fairy-tale, our destiny.

Have you heard:  "If you don't do this, you won't get this;"  OR "If you don't do this, I will take that away;"

Certainly that can happen regarding to material things, but not with LOVE.  

If we have something nice, we tend to not want to loose it.  We tend to want to keep what we like;  

... all of that because WE ARE AFRAID;

Material things are not necessities;  they are not something to hold on to for life;

However in LOVE, that's a choice.  In true love the analogy, "If you don't do this, you won't get this", doesn't NOT exist.

But our minds are trained that way, with fear too loose, which causes insecurity.  

And sometimes because of fear to loose something special, we lie.  Maybe to cover up something embarrassing or to just keep that person close, because of its importance.

Think about it if you have been in this situation before:

What would have happened if you did lie, but you recognized it earlier? 

When we lie to others, we are lying to ourselves.  When we lie to ourselves, it's harder to recognize than to others.

We will eventually tell the truth or the truth will eventually come out in the eyes of others;  But will it come out to us?

When we do recognized that we did indeed lied... when we accept that fact... that mistake... We become a 

better and stronger person.

  

You might still loose whatever you were trying to keep, but you will learn an important lesson.

Don't let fear scare love away.